Beautiful, Not Sexy
Show me an unmarried young guy who has no interest in girls and I'll show you what a gay looks like.
Everyone likes girls, and why not? They are sweet, they are pretty, they are bitchy and yes, they are hot. ;)
The Martians like to drool on their counterparts from Venus and its perfectly normal.
Now coming to girls. Since my college life began, I noticed a sharp shift in the mentality of female homo sapiens. They put on more make-up, dress up well (read provocatively) and often use subterfuge to attract the attention of guys. Again, even while keeping the scientific hormonal stuff aside, its normal.
But then something occurs. Girls, who try to gain the male attention, whine about the increasing number of "cheap" men ogling their bodies. They fail to take into account, that its the same curve hugging dress that they wore to attract sensuous stares. They go on to complain how the quality of men has gone down and real men aren't available any more. Time and again they fall for jerks, due to their so called "sense of humour", "excitement factor" and the "oozing confidence". Needless to say they have their hearts broken and then cry their hearts out to their "BFFs". The "Best friend forever" promises not to tell a soul about it and tells it to the next person who dutifully promises- "I wont tell anybody" .
The girl also "bitches" about another acquaintance who looks "ordinary", wears decent clothes and yet has a gem of a guy as her man. While calling her names, she forgets that the girl didn't try to be anything but her own self.
I am no "Agony Aunt" columnist. I am no guru who gives relationship advice. Neither am I a casanova who impresses women with his intrinsic debonair. On the other hand, I am also not a spiteful lover who is criticizing his unrequited love to vent his frustration.
The point I want to put forward to girls is simple.If you wanna have "fun" and enjoy with the attractive guy who can make you laugh over a few drinks and make out with you later, then go ahead- flaunt that pout, that plunging neckline, those sexy jeans. But then do not complain of libertine men & lecherous stares. Don't shed tears for falling in love with a jerk and then see him fooling around with other girls.
Real men go for beautiful women. Physical beauty is a strong leaven for attraction but not the sole reason to fall in love. Be the girl you are- sweet yet independent, caring yet strong and trust me you'll find a keeper. He'll not be a boring guy as you imagine, once you get to know him. You won't miss anything with him, including physical intimacy. But more than that you'll find a companion who'll treasure you more than anyone could.
Be charming, Be Gentle.
Aim not to look sexy, but to be beautiful :)
Everyone likes girls, and why not? They are sweet, they are pretty, they are bitchy and yes, they are hot. ;)
The Martians like to drool on their counterparts from Venus and its perfectly normal.
Now coming to girls. Since my college life began, I noticed a sharp shift in the mentality of female homo sapiens. They put on more make-up, dress up well (read provocatively) and often use subterfuge to attract the attention of guys. Again, even while keeping the scientific hormonal stuff aside, its normal.
But then something occurs. Girls, who try to gain the male attention, whine about the increasing number of "cheap" men ogling their bodies. They fail to take into account, that its the same curve hugging dress that they wore to attract sensuous stares. They go on to complain how the quality of men has gone down and real men aren't available any more. Time and again they fall for jerks, due to their so called "sense of humour", "excitement factor" and the "oozing confidence". Needless to say they have their hearts broken and then cry their hearts out to their "BFFs". The "Best friend forever" promises not to tell a soul about it and tells it to the next person who dutifully promises- "I wont tell anybody" .
The girl also "bitches" about another acquaintance who looks "ordinary", wears decent clothes and yet has a gem of a guy as her man. While calling her names, she forgets that the girl didn't try to be anything but her own self.
I am no "Agony Aunt" columnist. I am no guru who gives relationship advice. Neither am I a casanova who impresses women with his intrinsic debonair. On the other hand, I am also not a spiteful lover who is criticizing his unrequited love to vent his frustration.
The point I want to put forward to girls is simple.If you wanna have "fun" and enjoy with the attractive guy who can make you laugh over a few drinks and make out with you later, then go ahead- flaunt that pout, that plunging neckline, those sexy jeans. But then do not complain of libertine men & lecherous stares. Don't shed tears for falling in love with a jerk and then see him fooling around with other girls.
Real men go for beautiful women. Physical beauty is a strong leaven for attraction but not the sole reason to fall in love. Be the girl you are- sweet yet independent, caring yet strong and trust me you'll find a keeper. He'll not be a boring guy as you imagine, once you get to know him. You won't miss anything with him, including physical intimacy. But more than that you'll find a companion who'll treasure you more than anyone could.
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Be charming, Be Gentle.
Aim not to look sexy, but to be beautiful :)
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